How to think about life-changing money

Liquidity events are special. They condense years of work into one defining moment—a mix of pride, relief, and the weight of what comes next.

Every week, I speak with someone navigating this exact moment.

Just last week, I met a couple who had sold a piece of ancestral farming land in Ludhiana. After decades in the family, they let go of it and moved to a rented apartment in Bombay. With several crores in their account and no immediate need for the money, they found themselves stuck. “We’re afraid to touch it,” they told me. “What if we mess this up?”

A few days before that, a consultant at a global investment bank reached out. He had received a career-defining bonus after a blockbuster year. But the joy quickly turned to confusion. “Where do I park this?” he asked. “Should I wait for the markets to cool off?”

These are not isolated cases. Liquidity without preparation often leads to regret.

We are in the midst of the largest intergenerational wealth transfer in human history. According to EY’s 2024 Global Wealth Management Report, an estimated US$18 trillion in assets, roughly equating China’s GDP, will change hands globally by 2030. 

While much of this wealth will move across generations, a growing share is being unlocked much earlier. Founders are selling stakes. Companies are buying back ESOPs. Employees are receiving life-changing bonuses. Huge pools of wealth are being unlocked through equity sales, public listings, and a strong private market cycle.

This edition is a first-principles guide to navigating those moments, i.e., what changes when large sums of money arrive, how to plan for them, what to do on Day Zero, and why small decisions made early can shape outcomes for decades.

Let’s begin. 

Section 1: Why windfalls require a different financial mindset

Here’s the deal- 

Most financial plans are built assuming steady income. 

You invest ₹1 lakh every month. Your salary grows gradually. Bonuses come once a year. You plan, save, and compound over time.

It’s predictable, comfortable, and easy to structure.

But what happens when significant money lands all at once?

All of a sudden, the game changes from managing cash flows to allocating capital. And yet, this is where most investors feel the least prepared.  Liquidity events come with a psychological high, but also with questions, risks, and responsibilities. 

We’ve worked with professionals across India who found themselves facing this exact moment, i.e.. a liquidity event they hadn’t fully anticipated. The numbers were life-changing, but the decisions that followed felt unfamiliar and high-stakes.

And in that moment, they realised something: the rules are different when ₹1 crore lands in your account overnight. 

In my experience, the hardest financial decisions often start after the windfall.

It is easy to assume that a larger sum simply scales your existing plan. That which works for ₹1 lakh a month should work for ₹1 crore received today. But that assumption is exactly where most mistakes begin.

Liquidity events are not just bigger, they are fundamentally different. You are no longer managing income over time. You are making decisions on a large corpus today. It requires an immediate shift from cash flow planning to capital allocation. 

The questions changes from

“How much can I save this month?”

to

“What should I do with this capital now?”

We have seen this firsthand: even the most disciplined investors feel out of their depth when it comes to managing windfalls. And that’s because:

• Deployment dilemma: Unlike monthly inflows that align with expenses, a lump sum has no natural pacing. The money is in your account, sitting idle. Every delay, every hasty move has visible consequences.
• Distorted risk appetite: With excess capital, your filters drop. There is a greater tendency to chase high-risk bets that you would normally decline. 
• Success bias: Successful professionals often assume their decision-making will translate across domains. But this often leads to overconfidence, concentration, and costly errors.
• Tax drag: Tax implications take priority. Without proactive planning, a significant portion of the windfall can be lost to inefficient structuring. 
• Emotional weight: Windfalls are personal and often carry meaning—legacy, closure, achievement. Managing them is as much psychological as it is financial.

That is why this edition starts not with what to invest in but how to think.
Because when the inflow is large, the thinking needs to be sharper.

Section 2: Before Day Zero – Planning and structure

Once the money hits your account, most of the important decisions are already set in motion. Whether it is taxes, structuring, or deployment, planning after the event means operating with fewer options.

And yet, this is exactly what we see in practice. Most investors start thinking about strategy only after the capital has already arrived. By that point, the pressure is higher, timelines are tighter, and mistakes are more expensive. The best outcomes come from preparation done in advance.  Simple steps taken early often prevent complex problems later.

Here’s what robust preparation looks like before Day Zero:

1. Define the purpose of the capital

Is this money meant to create freedom? Provide safety? Drive long-term growth? Enable a future exit?

Being clear about its purpose helps guide how it should be allocated across risk, liquidity, and time horizon. Without that clarity, even good investments can feel misaligned. Purpose acts as an anchor and keeps you from second-guessing every move when the market shifts or opinions vary.

2. Pre-empt your decision framework

When a large sum arrives, the temptation is to either act quickly or freeze completely. Both responses come from not having a clear plan.

A simple mental model helps:

• Preserve: What needs to stay safe and liquid for emergencies, stability, or peace of mind
  
• Compound: What can be allocated for long-term growth, across equity, debt, or alternatives
  
• Express: What you are comfortable spending, gifting, or using to take asymmetric bets
  

This breakdown gives structure to your decisions. It also sets expectations so that you are not over-allocating to risk or hoarding out of fear. We often see regret creep in when investors treat the entire sum as growth capital.  But capital plays different roles in your life. Thinking in buckets prevents overexposure and, more importantly, decision fatigue.

3. Know your tax position

Large inflows often come with complex tax consequences, and these are rarely visible upfront.
One of the most common mistakes we see is assuming the headline number is the usable number.

Gross liquidity ≠ Net liquidity.

By the time you factor in capital gains tax, transaction costs, prior commitments, and any TDS deducted at source, the actual deployable capital may be significantly lower.

Here is what to account for:

• Capital gains liability: Understand how your proceeds are taxed—listed shares, unlisted equity, or property all carry different treatments.
  
• Rollover timelines: Sections like 54F or 54EC allow you to defer or offset capital gains, but only if reinvested within specific timelines.
  
• Advance Tax and TDS: Ignoring mid-year tax events can result in interest penalties or underpayment notices.

Clarity here avoids two common outcomes: overcommitting based on inflated assumptions or underinvesting out of fear. Net liquidity is what you can work with. Plan around that.

4. Estate and succession readiness

Large liquidity events do not just change your balance sheet; they change your legacy.

Yet, estate planning is often delayed because it feels uncomfortable or premature.

Here is what readiness looks like:

• Write or update your will: If your family structure, assets, or location has changed, your will needs to reflect that. A generic clause is not enough.
  
• Set up nominees: Ensure all major assets, i.e., bank accounts, demat holdings, insurance policies, have updated and verified nominees. This prevents avoidable disputes and delays.
  
• Consider trusts or foundations: For families with dependents, cross-border assets, or philanthropic goals, trusts offer both control and tax efficiency.

India’s largest business families, such as the likes of Tatas, Premjis, Nadars, follow this lesson in spirit and principle. Structures like these reflect deliberate, long-term thinking about how wealth is preserved and passed on. 

Succession planning is not about how much you leave behind. It is about how clearly and intentionally you leave it.

5. Build your decision team in advance.

Liquidity events trigger decisions across tax, investments, and estate planning. These areas are deeply interconnected and should not be handled in isolation. Having the right people around the table early ensures coordination, speed, and fewer errors.

At a minimum, this team should include:

• A tax advisor (your CA or a specialised consultant): To plan around capital gains, rollover strategies, and advance tax
  
• A portfolio manager: To guide deployment strategy across risk buckets and timelines
  
• An estate lawyer: To structure ownership, update documentation, and handle succession

Too often, investors scramble to assemble this team after the money arrives, when timelines are tight and pressure is high. Having trusted experts in place early is one of the most prudent forms of risk management.

6. Avoid the noise trap

Once the liquidity event occurs, advice will come from all directions—friends, bankers, product sellers, even well-meaning peers.

Everyone has a view. 

Many have an agenda. 

Structure is what helps you stay anchored.

When you are clear on your purpose and plan, it becomes easier to filter noise and make decisions on your terms, not someone else’s urgency.

Section 3: Day Zero – The first 48 hours

Once the money lands, resist the urge to react.

Instead: Pause. Park. Plan.

Here’s what to do:

• Do not rush into investing
• Do not repay all loans blindly
• Do not make any irreversible lifestyle commitments

A liquidity event does not complete your financial journey. It changes the tools you now have access to.

What was once a game of cash flows and compounding now becomes a question of capital and choices. The challenge is no longer just how to grow your money; it is how to use it well.

If you treat money as the goal, the journey becomes directionless. 

You end up optimising endlessly, reacting to opinions, and confusing movement with progress.

But if you treat money as a means, you can design a life around purpose, security, and freedom. That shift in mindset is where real clarity comes from.

Here’s a framework we recommend many clients adopt post-liquidity:

Stabilise the foundation- 

Before anything else, ensure your base is secure.
The goal here is to protect your downside, so that no short-term event forces a long-term compromise.

Here’s what that looks like:

• Reassess your emergency fund

Post-liquidity, your lifestyle, commitments, and exposure may have shifted.

A ₹10 lakh buffer may have worked earlier, but it might need to be recalibrated.

A good rule of thumb: set aside 12–24 months of essential expenses in a liquid, low-volatility instrument.

Top up your insurance

Liquidity gives you room to upgrade your protection. Do it while you are still insurable.

• Term insurance–  Reassess your life cover based on new responsibilities. A simple term plan ensures your family’s future is protected without relying on your portfolio.
• Health insurance– Make sure you have a personal policy that covers real hospital costs, not just what’s bundled with your job. Consider adding a top-up if needed.
• Secure your family’s future- If you have dependents, ageing parents, or children with future needs, account for that now. Build dedicated buffers, whether in the form of a separate portfolio, trust, or nominee-assigned assets.

Design for compounding

Once the foundation is in place, the focus shifts to growing your capital over the long term.
This is where discipline matters more than direction.

• Define your growth capital-  Set aside what you can leave untouched for 7–10 years. This is the engine of long-term wealth, and it must be sized realistically.
• Build a clear allocation strategy- Your capital should reflect your goals. Allocate intentionally across equity, debt, and alternatives based on your time horizon and risk comfort.
• Focus on staying invested- Compounding rewards consistency. A well-built plan helps you stay invested during volatility and avoid chasing returns in euphoria.

Enable your aspirations

Liquidity should not just protect and grow your capital; it should reflect your values, priorities, and aspirations.

• Create space for personal choices- Use a portion of your capital to support the things that matter to you, whether that is travel, a sabbatical, creative pursuits, or investing in early-stage ideas. When planned intentionally, these decisions feel energising, not indulgent.
• Be thoughtful with lifestyle upgrades- Post-liquidity, it is tempting to scale up everything- homes, cars, schools, spending habits. But not all upgrades feel equally valuable over time. Decide in advance what you want to change and what you want to keep the same.
• Support the people and causes you care about-  A portion of your wealth can create impact within your family or beyond it. Plan for education, healthcare, or charitable giving as part of your structure. 

In summary

A liquidity event changes more than numbers. It changes the lens through which you view money.

What was once about budgeting and SIPs becomes about allocation, structure, and intent.
The pace of decisions accelerates. The stakes feel heavier. And without preparation, even smart investors end up reacting instead of planning.

But it does not have to be that way.

If you define your intent early, build the right frameworks, and stay anchored to purpose, you turn a financial milestone into a long-term advantage.

Because at its core, money is just stored potential.
How you unlock it is what sets the course.

So take a breath. Step back.

And then decide what you want this capital to do for you, and for the life you want to build.

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